A sexual organ dedicated to pleasure, the clitoris contains nearly 10,000 nerve endings. Clearly, it promises great things! Here are six secrets for stimulating the clitoris and finding unbelievable pleasure.
With the fingers or the hand
Obviously, using the hands is the most common method. Whether it is by ourselves, or whether we are sharing an intimate moment, the fingers allow for a gentle exploration of the clitoris and what surrounds it. This is the moment to discover the inner lips, the outer lips, the vagina and the clitoris itself, an infinite source of pleasure.
Moving gently around the clitoris increases its arousal, while too sudden a touch will have the opposite effect. Gentleness is necessary to stimulate the clitoris, arousing it little by little until you feel it becoming erect.
Moistness is also important, so wet your finger, use a silicon-based lubricant, or simply let the excitement increase until the vagina offers its natural lubrication. As for your hand, use it to apply light pressure to the clitoris as well as to make small circles around it.
With a sextoy
Many women use sextoys during masturbation as well as in their couple. Sextoys often vibrate, offering intense sensations. Orgasm can be reached very quickly, as the stimulation is rapid and effective. Lots of women alternate playing with a sextoy with using their fingers, a way of slowing down the climb and creating more sexual tension. Sextoys are an excellent way of discovering the body and of finding out what helps make the pleasure mount for you, which will help you elsewhere on the path towards pleasure.
When young women discover their bodies and begin to enjoy autoeroticism, they generally rub against a soft object like a pillow or the mattress. They can squeeze their legs together in order to fold the clitoris in on itself, closing it inside the heart of the vulva, for more arousal. Rubbing allows you to manage perfectly the pressure, the movement and the speed. During sex, rub your clitoris against your partner’s thigh during foreplay. During penetration, you can rub against the pubis of your partner, a way of including the clitoris in vaginal stimulation.
With the tongue
Cunnilingus provides moistness and a lot of pleasure. Women often enjoy clitoral pleasure in the shower, thanks to the water pressure. Kissing and licking the clitoris should be practised gently. Choose a position in which you feel entirely at ease, with your legs closed or open, relaxing the head behind you to let yourself go or watching what is happening to be aroused visually. Anything goes. It is important to take your time, and never to rush cunnilingus, a highly sensual act. During cunnilingus you can also stimulate other erogenous zones, such as the entrance to the vagina or the breasts.
With the penis
During foreplay or during sex the penis can stimulate the clitoris. The glans is also very sensitive and is thought to contain around 4,000 nerve endings, so using the penis to stimulate the clitoris brings pleasure to both partners. Beyond the pleasure of touch between these two highly-sensitive areas, the erotic dimension of this movement promises a high level of arousal, fulfilling fantasies.
Via the vagina
For a long time, it has been considered that female pleasure exists in a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm. In fact, there is just one orgasm, experienced differently by different women, at different times, in different circumstances, and according to different stimulation.
We can think instead about external and internal stimulation. The clitoris is certainly visible, but in fact it measures ten centimetres and is made up of roots which surround the vagina. According to the latest research, the famous G-spot is thought to be a specific spot inside the vagina in contact with the clitoris. Stimulating the entrance to the vagina, not with lots of movement and going very deep, but instead by stimulating the walls, is therefore thought to be the way to stimulate the clitoris in a different way, for powerful and all-round pleasure.