Male or female, we all know our erogenous zones. However, what we don’t know is that there are more ways than we thought to enjoy them.
And what is more, we have others too, that we didn’t even know about it, which could take you to seventh heaven tomorrow. Let’s explore.
Men and women both have what we can call primary erogenous zones: for men, the penis, testicles and P-point, and for women the breasts, vulva, clitoris and vagina. On these zones we are all agreed: they are filled with nerves, sensitive and bring pleasure to the touch. However, discovering our bodies doesn’t stop there…
There are also secondary erogenous zones, more individual, which differ according to personality, a particular moment, a partner or a fantasy. For example, some of us love having our toes titillated while others are turned on by a caress on the stomach. And as we all have primary erogenous zones, that means we all have secondary ones to explore too.
In other words, there are always new pleasures to find! Between the new sensations we can get from the zones we already know, and the zones we haven’t even explored yet, pleasure isn’t far away…
A stroll through the erogenous zones
We know ourselves and we know our partner, and we often get pleasure in tried and tested ways. To take the route we already know is great, it’s our erotic baseline, but to discover new erogenous zones and new sensations, we have to focus on two things: sensuality and communication.
Long foreplay is essential for moving away from our usual cuddling habits and for daring to adventure away (whether alone or with someone else). As the arousal increases, as you’re both relaxed, turn your attention to every part of your partner’s body, and invite them to do the same to you.
One way to do this is through massage. Make yourself comfortable in bed, create an atmosphere you like and begin by massaging each other. Don’t think about the sex which is going to follow, that’s not the point and it will stop you enjoying the present moment. Instead, take the time to discover your partner’s body, from their back to their torso, from the crook of their elbow to their neck, from between their thighs to their buttocks. There’s unlimited time, no pressure, and this is what you’re here for.
Waking up the erogenous zones: how to do it
Letting your hand pass over their forearm…boring? Touching is an art. To arouse an erogenous zone, touch differently. Use the fleshy parts of your figures for maximum thrill, or grip and let go lightly with your nails for a wilder ‘hold’. Change your approach and change your method. Make sure you think about pace, alternating between more quickly and less quickly. And don’t forget to use your mouth It is highly sensitive, damp and warm, and lets us get closer to the furthest recesses of our partner’s body in a different way.
Finally, vibrating sex toys can really help move things along. Your Apollon is the ideal companion. Specially designed to massage your and your partner’s bodies, use it anywhere on your body, even on these newly discovered parts of your anatomy.
Communicating with your partner
They’re touching you, you’re touching them…To discover our and our partner’s erogenous zones, we must listen to each other and communicate. When you make your way across your partner’s body, watch for their reactions, such as their breathing and their facial expressions. Then you’ll know if you’re on the right track.
Just as they will be observing you while exploring your body. Tell them with sounds and sighs that you like it. And, of course, don’t forget simple words: “I love that, try again…” By communicating, the journey becomes all the more surprising, and you’re on an adventure together, the two of you, exploring new territory.